Channel: Brenda Hoffman | Source

Dear Ones,

It no longer matters what others think or want, even if you feel overwhelmed by their needs or interests. Rest assured that your direction has nothing to do with what others want or seem to need you to do. Both are 3D concepts

What is beginning to happen is a sense of isolation, as everyone finds and redirects their energies to their path, maybe to the detriment of your joy, because you are used to group thought and action. These new individual actions will feel isolating and, most likely, lonely. Not because it is, but because you perceive it as so.

In truth, the actions and words that are making you uncomfortable now were always part of your 3D life. They were merely not stated or acted upon. You have probably known beings who said or did something contrary to what you knew internally was their true intent. So you countered their inner turmoil with new actions, words, and thoughts. In a sense, it was a devious operation for both participants, because the truth was not spoken or addressed directly; it was hinted at, worked around, or ignored. More of a ‘gotcha ‘ than a direct statement or action. Forcing you and others to read between the words, actions, and thoughts, without either participant actually functioning as a forthright, honest being. “If you say or think that, I will retaliate with this word or action.” And so it has been for eons – until now.

More and more you are finding people stating the formerly unthinkable truth. And you are discovering yourself doing the same. The hidden is no longer that hidden, forcing you to react directly instead of with an inner finesse you have perfected over your 3D eons.

What was once defined as direct interaction is no more. The hidden is no longer hidden. The fears are no longer secret. And the words that were once sugar-coated are direct and to the point. Forcing you to review your own thoughts and actions. At the same time, it feels as if your armor has been removed because in the 3D world you could ignore or deny your inner thoughts. Such is no longer true. Like a two-year-old spouting the unexpected truth, so too will it be for you and others who have transitioned.

The hidden is no more. And the reaction to that new truth will be fairly unpleasant in the immediate future, until new you becomes more comfortable knowing you no longer have those secret agendas safely stored from others. Do you remember when you had an unpleasant thought about someone, but said you loved their actions? Such will no longer be part of your world. For what was hidden was merely a 3D cover for the real you. Now that you are busy exploring yourself and your actions, there is no need. In truth, it is a backward step to be anyone other than yourself. And if your true self is not appropriate for a relationship, you will find other interests, beings, or actions that are true for you.

This discomfort with your truth will not last more than a few days. But as you transition from 3D to your true being, you will likely have several uncomfortable moments or actions. Allow that, just as you allow toddlers to say and do the wrong thing at the wrong time and find it amusing.

Even though you will not harm yourself or others with your new truth, you might feel a bit lonely at first because those you verbalize great concern for, but do not feel internally, will know you are not speaking your truth. And so it will be as each of you becomes real instead of the make-believe 3D being you have been for eons. Allow yourself to evolve, including an inner honesty and outer reality, instead of trying to maintain the much more difficult nice approach you have mastered over the eons. So be it. Amen.