Join the 21-Day Magnetic Love Challenge here→ https://magneticlovechallenge.com/ Discover your vibration and get a personalized meditation to help you let go of your core pattern and raise your vibration to a whole NEW level (It's FREE) ➡️: https://whatsmyvibration.com/ Grab your ticket for my 3-day in-person THE SHIFT EXPERIENCE event: https://themagneticchallenge.com/mgy-join The degree to which you choose yourself is the degree to which others choose you. In this video, I'll show you how to stop abandoning yourself and become naturally magnetic to love and connection. 00:00 — Why Choosing Yourself Makes Others Choose You 01:28 — The Difference Between Being Yourself and Abandoning Yourself 04:17 — Why Certain People Drain Your Energy 05:35 — Why You Keep Attracting the Same Types of People 07:40 — How Childhood Patterns Keep You From Choosing Yourself 09:25 — The People-Pleasing Pattern That Blocks Your Magnetic Energy 10:29 — Why Being Authentic Is More Attractive Than Being Nice 13:11 — How Overgiving Attracts People Who Take Advantage of You 14:49 — Why Hyper-Independence Blocks Deep Connection 17:34 — How to Break Free From Your Childhood Survival Roles 19:31 — Why Choosing Yourself Will Feel Uncomfortable at First 22:00 — How Heart Coherence Makes You More Magnetic 25:43 — The Subconscious Blocks Keeping Your Heart Closed 27:59 — Why Having Fun Attracts More Than Chasing Outcomes 31:50 — Why You Must Be Willing to Let People Reject You 33:57 — How to Start Choosing Yourself Today