They come in when you finally accept being single… In this live event Q&A, I coach a woman through self-expression, authenticity, and letting go of the need for validation. We explore what happens when you stop shrinking yourself and start owning your energy. If you want to join my next in-person live event in Los Angeles on January 31st–February 1st and step into the most magnetic version of yourself, grab your ticket here: https://www.theshiftexperience.com/la 00:00 — “Love Comes When You Stop Looking”… But Then Nothing Happens 01:16 — Feeling Self-Conscious About Your Voice & Being Seen 02:24 — Owning What You’re Afraid Of Instead of Hiding It 03:27 — Breaking Self-Judgment by Being Authentic 04:45 — Owning Your Voice Instead of Shrinking Yourself 06:20 — Understanding Frames & Not Adopting Others’ Perceptions 08:02 — Amplifying Your Energy Instead of Toning It Down 09:04 — Letting Go of Validation & Approval 10:32 — Balancing Authenticity with Awareness 12:36 — From People-Pleaser to Authentic Self 14:03 — “I Stopped Looking… Why Isn’t Anyone Coming?” 15:05 — Letting Go Can’t Be a Strategy to Get Love 16:58 — The Void Phase After People-Pleasing 18:08 — Purpose, Passion & How New People Actually Enter Your Life 20:24 — You’re Not Alone