If you keep opening up… and people pull away, WATCH THIS. This live coaching breaks down how shame, people-pleasing, and trying to be “just right” keeps you stuck and quietly attracts the wrong relationships. If you want to join my next in-person live event in Los Angeles on February 28th–March 1st and step into the most magnetic version of yourself, grab your ticket here: https://www.theshiftexperience.com/la 00:00 — Why He Keeps Pushing Women Away 01:31 — Vulnerable… Then Panicking & Pulling Back 02:39 — “She’s Not Resonating With Me” (Overthinking Spiral) 03:27 — Making It Mean “Something Is Wrong With Me” 04:02 — Trying to Add Value So She Won’t Leave 05:26 — Shame Just Wants Love & Approval 06:25 — The Moment He Realizes “It’s Not My Fault” 07:29 — The Inner Child Behind the Desperation 08:22 — Letting Yourself Feel Shame Instead of Hiding It 09:26 — Stop Taking It Personal When They Pull Away 10:48 — The People-Pleasing Survival Pattern 12:56 — Double Down on Vulnerability (Instead of Chasing) 14:03 — There Are No Guarantees in Dating 17:04 — The Core Belief: “I’m Not Worth Being Chosen” 21:05 — It’s Not Your Job to Manage Her Emotions 23:21 — Letting Go of Needing to Be Understood 25:03 — Freedom in Letting Someone Misjudge You 27:08 — From Desperate to Detached